Can a data-driven approach to dating lead to love?
I knew what I was looking for: a partner with long-term compatibility. And I also knew my less-than-ideal tendency of ignoring red flags if I was attracted to someone. There was Miguel. He had wavy dark hair, black hipster glasses and a conversational fluency in feminism. After we had a few drinks at Dobbs Bar in Hayes Valley , he walked me home and we made out.
You do not get to dictate exactly who you meet or when, either. Chemistry can’t be forced — you might not feel any sparks with someone good on paper. And if you’re like me — someone who falls fast and hard — remember we cannot help who we’re attracted to, but we can choose whom we spend more time with.
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