“Consequences for bigots! Try it out!”
: I feel awful for this letter writer, and I hope she knows that she’s not ungrateful for cutting this heinous person out of her life. Pardon the knee-jerk advice, but I would suggest a therapist ASAP to work through the grief.This isn’t 20 years ago, this isn’t the Ella of 20 years ago. But yes, I get that a close family relationship ending is always going to hurt. And therapy would be great. Also just on the topic of like, standing up for yourself.: You’re absolutely right.
Her sister is only giving her pain and suffering at this point—AND deteriorating the relationships that are actually loving and supportive!: I often get questions from people who want to cut off a relative who has bigoted or hateful views and insists on talking about them all the time, and I usually say: Cut ‘em off! People get really mad at me, but this is even easier. The bad person is the one making the choice to end the relationship.
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